What Girls Really See

This is the counter blog for the first rough and tumble of a blog, written as ponderings about guy’s eyesight. Males are not the only guilty parties in this game, and it’s only fair to expose what I know about the female habits on this subject. In hopes of course that a male or two will speak up about how they see.

Girls talk, that’s how I know what physical appearance is to them. Granted there are as many different preferences as there are body types. If you were allowed to listen to one of these conversations you would hear things like: I like tall guys, well as long as he’s taller than me, what do you think about abs cuz I think they are a must, I’m not really into abs I prefer biceps, he’s gotta have a cute smile and pretty teeth, Oooh I dated this guy once with dimples-so cute, I never thought I would like guys with facial hair but I dig it, I like my guy to be bigger built, not me I like skinny boys...

It’s a great thing too, because I’ve seen the male species and not even brothers can be guaranteed to have similar characteristics. Girls look, unless they are blind, but I’m pretty sure even blind people can tell beauty with their fingertips. So naturally there are going to be things that attract us to this or that guy. So maybe then is when we get fixated on this or that characteristic, whether it be his smile, the gleam in his eye, or the exact height he is when we are standing next to each other. A fixation that creates enough of an attraction through the help of a little chemistry and hormones, to want us to see what this guy is about.

Sure you may be the hottest guy in the room, but that won’t keep our attention for real dating, unless you have something to go along with it. We see your physical features then we want to know what goes beyond them. What is behind your bulging biceps or cute pudgy belly, that reminds us of our favorite teddy bear and makes us want to melt in your arms. Is there sincerity in your eyes or a bad boy behind that smirk?

What I am saying is, girls use physical features as a lead-in. They don’t want to just stop there and collect 200 hundred dollars (although if you handing it out…). Girls want to get to know you, to see if you would be good to spend time with or introduce to their friends. Sure they will appreciate it when their gals make comments about your appearance but what really melts their heart is the sweet things you do, how you make them feel, and how you interact.

What to do if you don’t think you are cute enough to check yourself out in the mirror? Get some confidence, man confidence is HOTT!!! Know what you want and know that you can get it, if you try hard enough. Sure sometimes the girls will say no, but the hop right back up and give it another go. Or get a gal pal to point out what you have that makes you different from all the other guys. Different types of guys can definitely get certain girls interested.

Oh and if you seem to always be striking out read my previous blog, learn a few lessons about how you are seeing and try a new perspective.