In love?

I had a friend post a blog recently about being “in love?. I couldn’t help but comment on it and I thought I would see what other’s opinions were about the subject. So here is what I said. After checking that out…tell me what you think:

“I read a book once that said being “in love? is one of the worst places to be in life. I agree! No I am not bitter about love...

Let me explain. When you are “in love? you are unable to think logically, realize what is going on around you, see the real picture, or envision the future. Being “in love? is a state that takes place in the present then after a period of time ends up leaving you with a mess of unanswered questions, because you have neglected to answer them during the time you were “in love?. Granted the feelings and emotions that are present during the “in love? state, are wonderful, and many times will lead you to a successful further relationship with that person. Those feelings should not be the only reason you choose to be with that person. Love is not feelings, love is a CHOICE! Or rather a series choices to continue to put your affections toward someone. I encourage anyone to enjoy the feelings of being “in love" but don't let them cloud your view of reality when it comes to making decisions about the person you want to spend the rest of your life loving.?